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Busy Times – Part 1

I haven’t been posting as much as usual because this is a busy time for me, professionally as well as personally.

As a musician, performer, and director, the holiday season is packed with shows and other events.

Personally, I have been preparing goodie bags for my co-workers in my department. This year I oversee a department of 7 people. I made each person a bag with organic dried goodies from my garden and framed photos of nature scenes I took with my digital camera. This all took more time to put together than just walking into a store and buying gifts, but it was socially repsonsible gift giving since I used goodies from my garden that I know for sure are pesticide-free, photos I took myself, and gently used frames, since I buy almost all my stuff from thrift stores.

I’m also getting ready for my trip to Maryland, making the family calendars for everyone in my family. I continued the tradition that my mother started of giving everyone calendars, with a twist: I provide homemade calendars with photos that I have archived digitally from old photo albums and current photos and make collages on each month, reflecting birthdays and anniversaries.

And, of course, I am eagerly awaiting the moments to see my family again and hold my new grandson.

First Photos

I’ve posted First Photos of my new grandson!

New Beginnings

It’s still hard to believe that I am a grandmother. As I did my usual routine of scouring the Utah and national news this morning, my mind was really almost 2,000 miles away, wishing I could be there with my Greg, Carmen and little Will. I have to wait two weeks to see my grandson who will undoubtedly have grown out of the crinkly newborn-ness of just having exited the womb. I’ll have a week to bask in new grandmotherhood and then I’ll have to return home and not see him again for a few months. I’m still awaiting photos of the moments he was born.

More to come……

I’m a Grandma!

Gregory William Pope was born at 7:10pm Eastern Standard Time. He weighed 6 lbs even. Now begins a new chapter of my life – grandparenthood.

I’m a Grandma!

Gregory William Pope was born at 7:10pm Eastern Standard Time. He weighed 6 lbs even. Now begins a new chapter of my life – grandparenthood.

Update

Oh my goodness, I have not updated this in such a long time. Since I last updated, my life has gone berzerk!

I accepted a new position at my school, Director of Special Eduaction Services. Boy am I SWAMPED! My life has been totally centered around school since then. Plus, running a political campaign and other projects – has had me totally unable to pay attention to this blog. Not to mention my gardening and crocheting!

Since I last wrote, Carmen has moved to Maryland to be with my son. The baby is due around December 17. Today, however, Carmen has been having contractions all day – hopefully just Braxton Hicks contractions, we’ll see.

My daughter, Emily, was in a bad car accident the other day. She is o.k. but has a lot of injuries.

Tom took the position of Building Manager at our school, so a lot of our time, too, is spent at school because of the work he has to do.

But we are really enjoying life right now and looking forward to our new grandson. We will see him (if he is born then!) on December 24 when we travel to Maryland.

Uninsured Chidlren Numbers Increase

According to an article in today’s Salt Lake Tribune, more and more children in the U.S. are uninsured. The Deseret News, in its article today on the same issue, has a chart on the statistics.

More than half of America’s 9 million uninsured children live in two-parent families, a new analysis of 2005 U.S. census data show. And in most of these two-parent families, both parents work. In Utah, a whopping 91 percent of an estimated 88,458 uninsured kids have at least one working parent.

Low-income families – those with incomes at twice the federal poverty level, or up to $33,200 for a family of three – are still most at risk. In Utah, 65 percent of uninsured kids fall in this category, the report shows. But “increasingly, this is a problem for the middle-class,” said Judi Hilman, executive director of the Utah Health Policy Project.

The Governor of Utah is proposing a mandate that all children in Utah have health insurance.
Under the plan, parents would be required to enroll their kids in Medicaid or the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) if they qualify. This would take a big bite out of Utah’s uninsured, at least 52,000 youth.

But mandated coverage won’t work for everyone until private insurers offer affordable plans for middle-income families, says Hilman. “How can you mandate something that’s not affordable?”

My point exactly. Having been in uninsured situations before (with small children) I can attest first hand at how discriminatory and sometimes unattainable our current system is with regards to health care. Families either go without insurance or go in debt if health care is needed.

What’s wrong with this picture? Health care is a basic need. As are food, water, and education. When these needs are not provided or made unattainable a dominoe effect occurs. Lack of health care and food affect young people’s ability to concentrate in school. And we know what happens then (see my article below on No Child Left Behind and Utah’s schools). The “greatest country on earth” is failing to provide these basic human needs to a siginicantly large portion of our population.

A Mother’s Pain – by Cindy Sheehan

A Mother’s Pain
Cindy Sheehan

The only thing I ever wanted to be my entire life was a Mom. I never even
thought of having a career because I always wanted to have babies. My own
family was pretty dysfunctional when I was growing up and I just wanted to
have a family of my own to love and nurture.
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My grandson will be born in Maryland

Carmen was in Maryland the same time we were last month. She is back in Utah now and she and my son have decided to have her move there with him. I think it’s for the best, actually, but I will miss her and miss going to doctor’s visits. The bright side is now I will still get to go visit my family for Christmas and hopefully be there when the baby is born (due date is December 24).

My daughter and ovarian cysts

My daughter had to be rushed to the ER last night – for the third time in about 3-4 months – with another burst ovarian cyst.

She is only 16. I am so worried about her. If anyone knows what the long-term prognosis is, generally, for women with this problem, please offer information.

The really sad thing for us is that I am 2,000 miles away from her. She lives with her father. He refuses to take her to the ER each time and she has to call my son or another family member.
She is strong and getting through it ok, but this is a very negative situation for her.